Who knew that watching a show full of sex, drugs, and rock n' roll could give me that aha moment that could open my eyes to why I am single & none of my relationships have worked. Thank you to Showtime & David Duchovny for the show Californication. It was one line in that show that made me realize it has been me this entire time & not men. Isn't it amazing that one line can completely change your life & how you see things.
What could this brilliant line be? Well here it is: "By being loyal & faithful I attract that same shit back into my life. That’s how this universe works."
YES, that is it!!! This is why I continue to attract emotionally unavailable men into my life, and I always blame them. It is not them, it is me! I am emotionally unavailable, so of course I am attracting that same shit back into my life....brilliant!!!! Why didn't I think of this sooner. I must change myself, if I want to attract something different into my life. Sounds easy, right? I wish...
